As Transgender Day of Visibility draws to a close, I'm reflecting on the profound journey of my transition and the incredible acceptance and love I've received. For much of my life, I considered myself antisocial, often declining invitations and preferring solitude over social gatherings. This wasn't just a phase but a reflection of my internal struggle, of not feeling quite right in settings that were supposed to be comfortable and fun.
College years brought temporary escapes through wild adventures and the pressures of juggling a demanding part-time job with the expectations of a full scholarship. Yet, even as an adult, the idea of a "guys' night out" never appealed to me. I'd often find excuses to leave early, yearning for the comfort of my home.
However, since beginning my transition, there's been a beautiful shift. I've discovered joy in gatherings I once would have avoided, finding genuine connection in girls' gatherings and makeup parties. The interaction among women, the way we share and support each other, feels so different yet so right. For the first time, I haven't felt out of place; I've found a community where I belong.
And now, I find myself wishing these gatherings would never end. I crave these moments of connection, laughter, and mutual understanding to be more frequent. It's a testament to the acceptance and love I've received from other women. They've seen me for who I truly am, embracing me with open hearts. This acceptance has been one of the most precious gifts I've received this Transgender Day of Visibility.
To those who are still finding their way, know that you are not alone. There is a community ready to welcome you, to see you for who you are, and to celebrate you. Let's continue to support each other, to build spaces where everyone can feel accepted, loved, and understood.
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